The Mohnackys

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Hip Hop

This past weekend marked the Goose's very first Easter. My family (minus the Seal) came down for the weekend to join us and Mark's family for all of the fun. This was the first meeting of the cousins so we were anxious to see how they'd react to each other. There was some skepticism on Dom's part and complete obliviousness on Makenna's but all in all they seemed to hit it off just fine. The were set to face off in the egg hunt on Sunday so we joked earlier that week about hiding an egg in her footie to see if she could find it to train for the big event. Although she didn't put up much of a fight (she slept in someone's arms on the couch while Dom cleaned up), she did do some pretty exciting things that weekend - like make it through 99% of her first mass, and. . . well, that's it I guess. If you ask any of the grandparents they'll say they were the first to get her to smile, but without any *credible* witnesses we had to wait to put that one officially on the books until Tuesday.

Some of the goings on:

Warming up the bunny ears the weekend before

Uncle Mark taught Dom a new game

Uncle Scooby doing some intros

Auntie T doing double duty

Nonna heaven

Heeeyy Easter Bunny

Squishy Hedgehog

Godparents

Our little family

We were so lucky to be able to celebrate this big day with both sides of the family. First major holiday is in the books!

First Few Weeks

The past few weeks have been pretty surreal - we really couldn't have ordered a sweeter, funnier more mellow little girl than our little Goose. I don't know if its because we know what its like to not have her home that we really are enjoying every second with her and find even the most mundane things so enjoyable - Projectile vomit?... Hilarious! Toxic diaper change?... So cute! - but we love getting to know her and introducing her to our silly world. We were even lucky enough to have her Nonna come stay with us for a week to hang out.

"So tell me more about this library..."

As you can imagine she doesn't do all that much just yet, but she definitely has her likes and dislikes, many of which were things she was vicariously exposed to while on the inside. For instance, in a tribute to her Auntie Island Anna she LOVES reggae music, especially my Slightly Stoopid Pandora station that I listened to during work. I also used to sit on a yoga ball all day at my desk and now a couple seconds on this thing and she's out like a light. Putting the two together now is a blissful combination. She also loves her under the sea activity gym and has a love/hate relationship with the killer whale. She is intrigued by his majestic whalish beauty but shows her affection by giving him quick jabs to the fin over, and over and over again.

Reggae + Ball + Window = Baby Whispering Trifecta!

Do you speak whale?

Just hanging out with her friend

See the resemblance?

For being new she is a pretty popular little person as she's gotten her fair share of visitors over the past couple weeks. Kevin and Jamie came by for a sneak peek of the sleeping hedgehog/goose in her natural element (the swing in the living room) and K1 and Vince stopped by on their way to Coronado to shower us with food and flowers, even though it was Katie's birthday. Mark's friend Darren got some quality time as the boys watched her for an hour while his wife Emily and I went out for a nice (couples - surprise!) massage. Dana and Christina also came by with some much appreciated food just before their little nugget made his appearance on Mark's bday a couple weeks later. Throughout all these visits and countless drop ins from the neighbors she's been her calm, cute, cuddly little self. But right on cue when John and Egg dropped in for a quick visit she did all the things you expect babies to do at this age - poo (x4), cry and burp, in no particular order. But the prize for greatest distance traveled has to go to Mark's good college friend Jarrod (J-rod) who was out from Virginia on a business trip and drove up from the airport to see her.

First comes love, then comes marriage . . .

Darren and Emily

Just days before Ryland made his debut

Old Santa Clara buds

Becky also flew in for a quick 24-hour trip and spoiled us with meals, gifts and entertainment (her little rental car was like a clown car minus the clowns) and then proceeded to send US a thank you note once she got home - silly Becko . She also snuck in some good snuggles with the goose and experienced her first trip to the beach with us!

Acai anyone?

She's in there - I swear

The Marathon

The only bittersweet part to the past few weeks is that since we got the diagnosis of the omphalocele back in October, I had pictured getting through everything - the end of the pregnancy with all of the tests and stressful appointments, labor, delivery, the surgery, the NICU stay - as a marathon with finish line being when we would get to bring her home and everything would be ok. But getting the KTS diagnosis has felt like someone telling us we have another 26.2 to go- all slightly uphill. In addition to her current symptoms, there is a whole list of potential problems and side effects so we've been going to specialists all over San Diego County to rule out other potential problems, some of which are very scary. This alone has been hard because instead of me having to go through the painful tests and exams, we've had to watch our little girl be subjected to more poking and prodding. They plan of action (our only choice at this point) is to start a series of treatments on her legs in the coming months - at least 6 treatments that will all require that she be put under general anesthesia. Finding this out was heartbreaking to me knowing that we'd already gone through that and that it was something we never thought would have to happen again, but we know its our only option and we'll do anything to make sure she gets the best care possible.

But randomly while doing some research about Carlsbad for a social studies project (not my own obviously) I stumbled across one of it's notable residences info and discovered that pro snowboarder Shaun White had two open heart surgeries before the age of one- and he seems to be doing just fine. In some weird way it made me feel better to know that it really can work out ok. And that she'll probably be in the Olympics some day and they'll write a wikipedia page about her. So for now we're hoping for the best and clearing a spot for her gold medal:)

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Dear Makenna

Although it doesn't feel like the odds have been entirely in our favor (you're one in 6 billion baby!) we feel like we are the luckiest people on earth. Your Dad and I are so lucky to have such a sweet, funny, silly little baby and all three of us are so lucky for such amazing family and friends. In addition to the wild and wacky (and loving too) Salcidos and Mohnackys, you've been born into an even larger extended 801 family of some of the coolest people around, who just happen to love you very much. As we waited in our room while you were in surgery just 28 hours after being born, a stream of funny, loving silly photos kept us entertained and our spirits up while we waited anxiously to see you. Someday I hope you'll enjoy looking at all of this lovin' that came your way just hours after you made your appearance in this world.

We can't wait to introduce you to this crazy cast of characters that have been such a major part of our lives for many years (yep, we're getting old). You'll find out they are a pretty amazing group of friends and I'm sure you'll love them all a lot.

We do.